“See that any time you feel pained or defeated, it is only because you insist on clinging to what doesn’t work. Dare to let go and you won’t lose a thing except for a punishing idea.” – Guy Finley
Let go of the idea that it has to be a certain way/thing. Not the desire, just the way that you think it has to happen. There is always another possibility, so let go of the pain and you will accomplish what you want in life.